Trapped in winter’s grip: Displaced families yearn for the warmth of home in Afghanistan

Mohammad Najibi, a photographer for Islamic Relief based in Afghanistan’s Herat province, recounts a year spent witnessing the indomitable spirit of his fellow Afghans as they rise from the devastation of the earthquake in October 2023. As winter approaches, he shares stories of families facing the cold with little more than a tent to protect them from the elements.

Every click of my camera captures not just images, but also the raw emotions of families struggling to reclaim their lives amid the rubble. The tremors may have subsided, but the echoes of grief still linger. As winter approaches, I see those same resilient faces—filled with hope, yet shadowed by uncertainty—facing another harsh season with little more than their faith to survive.

As I draw closer to Shorabak village in the Injil district of Herat province, one of the areas hit hardest by the disaster, a striking contrast reveals itself. The serene beauty of the mountain trekking road, framed by a clear blue sky, soon gives way to a sprawling makeshift settlement that tells a different story. Tents, worn and weathered, pepper the landscape like the scattered memories of a once-thriving community.

It’s mid-October, and the few trees and shrubs are shedding their leaves, embracing the harsh winter. The air is filled with the smell of mud, mixed with dust that floats in the sunlight, creating shades of tan and brown.

In this challenging environment, families huddle together in their fragile shelters, their faces etched with worry. Young children cling to their parents, their laughter faint against the backdrop of uncertainty. Each passing day brings them closer to the brink, their provisions dwindling as hope flickers like a candle in the wind.

As the crisp autumn air settled around us, I sat down with 2 remarkable survivors to delve into their stories of resilience and preparation. Their eyes sparkled with the wisdom of experience as they shared how they braced themselves for the harsh months ahead. What got them through wasn’t stacking firewood, blankets or food; it was sheer faith.

‘I fear these harsh winter months without supplies will break us’

Zainab is torn between caring for her paralysed daughter and the need to provide for the family

“For the second year in a row, we find ourselves huddled together, facing the winter in a tent,” says Zainab, a mother of 4 living in Shorabak village in Herat. “My husband can no longer work in the fields.”

“Winter is creeping in, just a month away, and already the chill bites through our thin walls,” the 60 year old says. “I look around the tent, scanning for anything that might shield my family from the bitter cold. I can’t find anything.”

Tears well up as she speaks of her eldest daughter, just 33, who has been paralysed for the last decade.

“I cannot leave her, unable to fend for herself, just when I desperately need to gather food for the others. I fear these harsh winter months without supplies will break us.”

I drove into another village to see how families were preparing for winter. The situation was even worse than I had anticipated. Due to the ongoing windy storm this time, few tents could withstand the elements near where their mud-brick homes once stood.

‘My children are woken by strong, cold wind shaking our tent at night’

Immamudin was called to set up the fallen tent again while looking after the flock of sheep in the valley in Botan village, Herat

“All my family belongings, including utensils and clothing, are trapped in my destroyed home,” Immamudin, 32, reflects sorrowfully. “For nearly a year now, I’ve been sharing this tent with my 3 young children and my pregnant wife. Soon, our 5 sheep will join us in this tent.”

He continues, his voice trembling, “The winter hasn’t even begun, but the nights are already biting cold, and I dread what’s to come. When it snows, I fear for my family’s safety.”

With a heavy heart, he adds, “I’ve had to set up our tent again and again as the strong winds relentlessly tear it down.

“We go to bed hungry most nights,” he admits, a look of despair crossing his face. “We rely entirely on the kindness of charitable organisations. It’s heartbreaking to watch my children suffer like this.”

At night, he finds himself huddling closer to his kids, whispering words of comfort as the cold wind rattles their temporary home. “I wrap my arms around them, trying to shield them from the chill. All I can do is ask for help—warm clothes and food—for my family’s survival.”

Immamudin’s daughter Fatima adds, “When the tents collapse on us, I wake up thinking it’s an earthquake. It is so frightening.”

I am pleading for your support to help my people endure the relentless grip of winter’

Zainab and Immamudin embody the heartbreaking reality many earthquake-displaced families face, struggling to survive an unforgiving winter. Their stories weigh heavy on my heart: resilient mothers and their children huddled together in a flimsy tent, their only shelter against the biting cold, with barely a few thin sleeping mats to cushion their weary bodies. The sight of their brave faces, alongside their sheep and goats, engaged in a daily fight for warmth, will forever haunt my memories.

In this remote village, nestled among towering mountains, the weather can shift in an instant. One moment, there’s a fragile semblance of safety in their canvas tents; the next, a howling storm robs families of that fleeting comfort. The chilling realisation of what lies ahead looms closer with each passing day. The snow will blanket their fragile world in just a month, turning it into a frozen prison. The ice won’t just settle on the ground; it will creep onto the roofs of their tents, amplifying their struggle and turning survival into an excruciating fight against the elements.

Against this harrowing backdrop, I am pleading for your support to help my people endure the relentless grip of winter.

Islamic Relief supports vulnerable families in Afghanistan and elsewhere each winter, providing food, blankets and fuel to help people face the cold months. Please help us to reach families in need this winter. Donate to our Winter Appeal now.

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Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Nadeem Azhar

General Counsel

Nadeem joined Islamic Relief Worldwide in September 2022. He has worked in the charitable sector for over a decade.

He studied Modern History and Politics at Manchester University, and at the University of Law in London before qualifying as a solicitor in 2011.

Nadeem is an experienced corporate, commercial and governance lawyer, having worked with various faith-based and grant making charities as well those in health and education settings. He was a partner at a law firm in London before moving in-house where he focused on setting up and restructuring charities and social enterprises.

Most recently, Nadeem was Lead Counsel at Mind, a leading mental health charity, where he co-authored a new federation agreement, revamped legal processes, and played a major role in developing its strategic and fundraising partnerships.

Nadeem has been a charity trustee for the Seafarers Charity, as well as many grant-making bodies and theatre companies.

Adnan Hafiz

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

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Javed Akhtar

Director of Finance

Javed Akhtar has more than a decade of experience at Islamic Relief, having worked in a similar role between 2003-2014. In that role he strove to implement wide-ranging financial and accounting processes which aided in the transparent nature in which Islamic Relief now operates.

Javed also has diverse experience across the private sector, having worked at American chemicals and pharmaceutical giant DuPont, shipping firm FedEX and technology consultancy company Accenture. In all his roles, he prioritises using the latest technologies to improve monitoring and reporting at every level. Javed’s commitment to embracing digital end-to-end technology, enhancing accountability to our stakeholders and promoting financial transparency is ensuring that we remain at the forefront of financial developments in the sector.

By training, Javed is a chartered accountant with a Master’s degree in NGO Management with Charity Accounting and Financial Management from Cass Business School.
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Affan Cheema  

Director of International Programmes

Affan Cheema is an experienced leader who has spent 25 years working in the international aid sector on poverty eradication in Asia, Africa and the Middle East. He has worked in fast onset emergencies, protracted crisis and development environments whilst working for Islamic Relief Worldwide and Care International. He is also a trustee of South West International Development Network (SWIDN).

Through his career Affan has held numerous roles including institutional fundraising, programme and grant management, and programme quality assurance.  Affan’s leadership has helped Islamic Relief Worldwide secure the highly coveted Core Humanitarian Standard (CHS), seen as the sector’s premier benchmark for operational excellence.

Affan completed his BA in Economics and Geography from University of London (School of Oriental and African Studies) and his MSc in Development Administration and Planning from the University of Bristol. He is PRINCE2 qualified, is a keen sportsman and recently co-edited a book entitled -Islam and International Development: Insights for working with Muslim Communities-.
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Dr Hossam Said

Managing Director, Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD)

For nearly three decades Dr Hossam has provided the strategic vision to manage, lead and develop a range of international humanitarian interventions around the world.

At the start of his career, Dr Hossam served on the Board of Directors of the Egyptian Medical Syndicate, before moving to Islamic Relief Worldwide to manage the core global business activities as International Programmes Director.

During this time the organisation increased its global reach, gaining both domestic and international repute and credibility. Dr Hossam has also served on the Islamic Relief Worldwide Board of Management and Executive Committee for the past 15 years; sharing responsibility for strategic organisational development and the change management process, whilst forging strong relationships with many other charities.

Dr Hossam gained an MBA from Aston Business School in 2004 and graduated as a Medical Doctor from Cairo University in 1981.
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Martin Cottingham  

Director of External Relations and Advocacy

Martin Cottingham joined Islamic Relief in 2012 as IRUK Media Relations Manager, and was appointed Head of Communications in 2015 before taking up his current position as Director of External Relations and Advocacy for Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Martin has helped Islamic Relief to increase its mainstream media profile and expand its campaigning work, producing hard-hitting advocacy reports on floods in Pakistan (2011) famine in Somalia (2012) disaster risk reduction (2013) and aid to Afghanistan (2014). He has over 20 years’ experience working in media, communications and marketing roles for international development and environmental charities.

Martin graduated from the University of London with a degree in English and Drama (1982-85) then trained as a journalist with a postgraduate diploma at City University (1986-87). He has previously worked for Christian Aid as Editor of Christian Aid News and Media Relations Manager (1988-97) for Oxfam as Regional Campaigns Manager (1997-2000) and at the Soil Association as Marketing Director (2001-2006), as well as working for a wide range of organisations as a freelance writer, researcher and communications consultant.

Tufail Hussain

Director of Islamic Relief UK

Tufail Hussain has 17 years’ experience in the humanitarian and development sector, leading on marketing and fundraising campaigns for several organisations before joining Islamic Relief UK in 2016 as Deputy Director. Tufail was appointed Director of Islamic Relief UK in 2019 and in 2021 provided valuable leadership as interim CEO of Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Tufail is driven by a passion for empowering disadvantaged youth and mentors a number of young people. He also works to strengthen engagement between British Muslims and wider society. Under his leadership, Islamic Relief UK has significantly increased its income and developed successful partnerships with communities across the country. He has travelled around the world to raise awareness of major emergencies such as the Syria, Yemen and Afghanistan crises and the floods in Pakistan and Sudan.

A father to 5 daughters and a son, Tufail is also a sports enthusiast and passionate Liverpool FC supporter. Tufail has run the London Marathon twice, raising over £35,000 for humanitarian causes.

Before joining Islamic Relief he was CEO of Orphans in Need, where he oversaw a new strategy that increased income from £2 million to £9 million in 3 years and opened up new UK and international offices. Tufail is also a trustee of the Muslim Charities Forum and a Director of TIC International (Islamic Relief Worldwide’s clothes recycling and trading arm).
Waseem Ahmad

Chief Executive Officer

Waseem Ahmad joined the Islamic Relief family over 24 years ago, serving as Programme Officer in the Balochistan province of south-western Pakistan before becoming Head of Programmes in Pakistan. Waseem then moved to Oxfam and Tearfund before returning to Islamic Relief to establish our mission in Malawi. Later serving as Head of Programme Funding and Partnerships, Waseem led the response to major crises across the globe, including the East Africa drought, Pakistan earthquake and the Indian Ocean Tsunami.

Waseem then served for nearly 6 years as our Director of International Programmes, during which time the charity secured and retained the coveted Core Humanitarian Standard certification in recognition of the quality of our programming. He was appointed CEO of Islamic Relief in May 2021.

With a special interest in community mobilisation and infrastructure, Waseem received an MSc in Project Planning and Management from the University of Bradford, as well as an MSc in Economics from Arid Agriculture University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan.

Waseem has also worked for Lepra Health in Action and is a member of the International Civil Society Centre’s Board of Trustees. The father-of-3 enjoys walking and playing football, and is a keen birdwatcher.