Palestinian women endure caesarean sections without aftercare and use rags in place of sanitary products 

An Islamic Relief aid worker* in Gaza describes women living in tents undergoing operations without medical aftercare, and using rags because sanitary pads are now too expensive. 

In the last couple of days, the area where I am staying has become very crowded because many families are fleeing from Rafah to the middle area. There are hundreds of thousands of people, they are everywhere.  

The last time I went to the market, I could barely walk through the masses of people in the streets. I saw people building tents from nylon and wood, near the cemetery, on streets, on empty land; others were sheltering in storage spaces and unfinished buildings.

People just want a safe place. 

Palestinian women cannot access healthcare

I met a colleague from one of Islamic Relief’s local partner organisations – he is displaced in my area. He told me they are conducting an initiative called “From Woman to Woman” that is helping women at the displacement sites with some of their hygiene needs and other essentials. He introduced me to a young woman, Fatima*, who works with the women in the displacement camps.  

“Women can’t meet any of their needs. Pregnant women can’t access healthcare. In fact, there is no healthcare at all, for anyone,” she told me.  

I asked about healthcare for women, pregnant women and those who recently gave birth, and Fatima shared what she had witnessed: 

“I know a woman who gave birth via caesarean section, while staying in a tent. Usually, recovery from such an operation takes some time, but this woman received no care at all. She had to wake up early and to prepare food, clean and take care of her children. She then got an infection and had to go to the hospital. The hospitals can barely provide medical care to people wounded in strikes, so she was only given painkillers and sent away.  

“One woman refused to drink water and eat during her pregnancy to avoid using the toilets. The toilets are always crowded and unclean and she thought it is better to avoid them. Her health deteriorated and she had to be rushed to the clinic, but the only assistance they could offer was advising her to drink more water. 

“Another young woman used to sit on the ground to wash clothes and cook food on the fire. The awkward position twisted the leg of her unborn baby. She was lucky to find out about her baby as most of the women do not have a chance for regular checkups, ultrasound scans, and advice from doctors. Most pediatricians are also displaced, or no longer able to work.  

“Frankly, pregnancy now is like it was 100 years ago, without medical care and checkups. Only a lucky and healthy woman can get through pregnancy without complications. Many women I know have miscarriages and problems due to the lack of medical care.”  

Women and girls without protection from sexual harassment and assault

I also talked with her about other displaced women and girls, asking about the main problems they face. Fatima told me, “The main problem for women is the lack of privacy and personal space. Some girls told me they have been subject to harassment and assault. In these conditions, they can’t report these incidents as there are no channels for reporting and they think it is not as important as meeting their family’s basic needs, preparing food, or washing clothes. 

“The conditions are very harsh. Most women are not used to cooking on firewood or washing clothes by hand. They do not have warm clothes. Some of them told me they have breathing issues due to polluted air from the ongoing military operations, from fire, from the dirt. 

Women on their period can’t find sanitary pads: even if they are available in the market, they cost much more than most women can afford. There are girls and women now using rags instead, but that caused many problems for them, especially infections and other complications as there are not enough water or hygiene products.  

“Also, women do not have access to products like deodorant, creams, shampoos, and many other things. I know lots of women and girls who used to take very good care of themselves and wear the nicest clothes – they are now unable to wash. It is sad seeing them suffer.”  

Gaza’s women and girls are strong, but they have suffered

I asked what the most urgent needs of women and girls are. Fatima sighed and said, sadly, “They need their lives back. They need their homes. They need everything. Palestinian women are strong and resilient, but they are one of the most vulnerable segments in society and they have suffered the most. Women – like everyone in Gaza – just hope for a ceasefire as soon as possible, so they can take a breath of rest and comfort after all the loss they endured.” 

Fatima and her organisation are helping women and girls however they can, but it is a drop in an ocean of need. I see my wife, my sisters, and my mother enduring these hard conditions and think of all they have suffered. They have lost their smiles. They, like every other Palestinian, are praying for an end to this brutal war. They ask for your support, and for you to tell their stories and inform this unfair world about their suffering.   

Please help Islamic Relief support people in desperate need in Gaza: Donate to our Palestine Emergency Appeal now. 

*This blog is anonymised to protect the safety and security of our colleague and others mentioned.

Read the other blogs in this series here. 

Editor’s note: This blog was submitted amid a fast-changing and deepening crisis. The information was correct as of Saturday 24 February 2024. 

BROWSE OTHER OPINIONS

new director

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Nadeem Azhar

General Counsel

Nadeem joined Islamic Relief Worldwide in September 2022. He has worked in the charitable sector for over a decade.

He studied Modern History and Politics at Manchester University, and at the University of Law in London before qualifying as a solicitor in 2011.

Nadeem is an experienced corporate, commercial and governance lawyer, having worked with various faith-based and grant making charities as well those in health and education settings. He was a partner at a law firm in London before moving in-house where he focused on setting up and restructuring charities and social enterprises.

Most recently, Nadeem was Lead Counsel at Mind, a leading mental health charity, where he co-authored a new federation agreement, revamped legal processes, and played a major role in developing its strategic and fundraising partnerships.

Nadeem has been a charity trustee for the Seafarers Charity, as well as many grant-making bodies and theatre companies.

Adnan Hafiz

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Board of Directors
Javed Akhtar

Director of Finance

Javed Akhtar has more than a decade of experience at Islamic Relief, having worked in a similar role between 2003-2014. In that role he strove to implement wide-ranging financial and accounting processes which aided in the transparent nature in which Islamic Relief now operates.

Javed also has diverse experience across the private sector, having worked at American chemicals and pharmaceutical giant DuPont, shipping firm FedEX and technology consultancy company Accenture. In all his roles, he prioritises using the latest technologies to improve monitoring and reporting at every level. Javed’s commitment to embracing digital end-to-end technology, enhancing accountability to our stakeholders and promoting financial transparency is ensuring that we remain at the forefront of financial developments in the sector.

By training, Javed is a chartered accountant with a Master’s degree in NGO Management with Charity Accounting and Financial Management from Cass Business School.
Board of Directors
Affan Cheema  

Director of International Programmes

Affan Cheema is an experienced leader who has spent 25 years working in the international aid sector on poverty eradication in Asia, Africa and the Middle East. He has worked in fast onset emergencies, protracted crisis and development environments whilst working for Islamic Relief Worldwide and Care International. He is also a trustee of South West International Development Network (SWIDN).

Through his career Affan has held numerous roles including institutional fundraising, programme and grant management, and programme quality assurance.  Affan’s leadership has helped Islamic Relief Worldwide secure the highly coveted Core Humanitarian Standard (CHS), seen as the sector’s premier benchmark for operational excellence.

Affan completed his BA in Economics and Geography from University of London (School of Oriental and African Studies) and his MSc in Development Administration and Planning from the University of Bristol. He is PRINCE2 qualified, is a keen sportsman and recently co-edited a book entitled -Islam and International Development: Insights for working with Muslim Communities-.
Board of Directors
Dr Hossam Said

Managing Director, Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD)

For nearly three decades Dr Hossam has provided the strategic vision to manage, lead and develop a range of international humanitarian interventions around the world.

At the start of his career, Dr Hossam served on the Board of Directors of the Egyptian Medical Syndicate, before moving to Islamic Relief Worldwide to manage the core global business activities as International Programmes Director.

During this time the organisation increased its global reach, gaining both domestic and international repute and credibility. Dr Hossam has also served on the Islamic Relief Worldwide Board of Management and Executive Committee for the past 15 years; sharing responsibility for strategic organisational development and the change management process, whilst forging strong relationships with many other charities.

Dr Hossam gained an MBA from Aston Business School in 2004 and graduated as a Medical Doctor from Cairo University in 1981.
Board of Directors
Martin Cottingham  

Director of External Relations and Advocacy

Martin Cottingham joined Islamic Relief in 2012 as IRUK Media Relations Manager, and was appointed Head of Communications in 2015 before taking up his current position as Director of External Relations and Advocacy for Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Martin has helped Islamic Relief to increase its mainstream media profile and expand its campaigning work, producing hard-hitting advocacy reports on floods in Pakistan (2011) famine in Somalia (2012) disaster risk reduction (2013) and aid to Afghanistan (2014). He has over 20 years’ experience working in media, communications and marketing roles for international development and environmental charities.

Martin graduated from the University of London with a degree in English and Drama (1982-85) then trained as a journalist with a postgraduate diploma at City University (1986-87). He has previously worked for Christian Aid as Editor of Christian Aid News and Media Relations Manager (1988-97) for Oxfam as Regional Campaigns Manager (1997-2000) and at the Soil Association as Marketing Director (2001-2006), as well as working for a wide range of organisations as a freelance writer, researcher and communications consultant.

Tufail Hussain

Director of Islamic Relief UK

Tufail Hussain has 17 years’ experience in the humanitarian and development sector, leading on marketing and fundraising campaigns for several organisations before joining Islamic Relief UK in 2016 as Deputy Director. Tufail was appointed Director of Islamic Relief UK in 2019 and in 2021 provided valuable leadership as interim CEO of Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Tufail is driven by a passion for empowering disadvantaged youth and mentors a number of young people. He also works to strengthen engagement between British Muslims and wider society. Under his leadership, Islamic Relief UK has significantly increased its income and developed successful partnerships with communities across the country. He has travelled around the world to raise awareness of major emergencies such as the Syria, Yemen and Afghanistan crises and the floods in Pakistan and Sudan.

A father to 5 daughters and a son, Tufail is also a sports enthusiast and passionate Liverpool FC supporter. Tufail has run the London Marathon twice, raising over £35,000 for humanitarian causes.

Before joining Islamic Relief he was CEO of Orphans in Need, where he oversaw a new strategy that increased income from £2 million to £9 million in 3 years and opened up new UK and international offices. Tufail is also a trustee of the Muslim Charities Forum and a Director of TIC International (Islamic Relief Worldwide’s clothes recycling and trading arm).
Waseem Ahmad

Chief Executive Officer

Waseem Ahmad joined the Islamic Relief family over 24 years ago, serving as Programme Officer in the Balochistan province of south-western Pakistan before becoming Head of Programmes in Pakistan. Waseem then moved to Oxfam and Tearfund before returning to Islamic Relief to establish our mission in Malawi. Later serving as Head of Programme Funding and Partnerships, Waseem led the response to major crises across the globe, including the East Africa drought, Pakistan earthquake and the Indian Ocean Tsunami.

Waseem then served for nearly 6 years as our Director of International Programmes, during which time the charity secured and retained the coveted Core Humanitarian Standard certification in recognition of the quality of our programming. He was appointed CEO of Islamic Relief in May 2021.

With a special interest in community mobilisation and infrastructure, Waseem received an MSc in Project Planning and Management from the University of Bradford, as well as an MSc in Economics from Arid Agriculture University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan.

Waseem has also worked for Lepra Health in Action and is a member of the International Civil Society Centre’s Board of Trustees. The father-of-3 enjoys walking and playing football, and is a keen birdwatcher.