‘It’s You Again’: Four women share Ramadan stories from Afghanistan

In Afghanistan, Islamic Relief is welcoming Ramadan 2024 under the theme ‘Dobara Shuma Hastead’ – or ‘It’s You Again’ – to represent how we are always there for communities in need during Ramadan.

This Ramadan is a challenging one for families in Afghanistan, where the cost of essential food items continues to rise amid inflation and supply chain disruptions. The situation has left low-income families, already struggling after decades of conflict and climate-induced crises, living hand to mouth.

An estimated 23.7 million people – more than half of Afghanistan’s population – are projected to require urgent humanitarian assistance this year. On top of all this, a series of deadly earthquakes in October killed 2,000 people, according to local authorities in Herat province, and added to the suffering of many more.

Also struggling are the half a million people who have returned from Pakistan since mid-September. Many are arriving in areas already hosting large displaced populations, meaning the demands on limited resources are becoming even greater. Many families are living in makeshift tents or overcrowded temporary shelters, exposed to the elements. The bitter cold has seen a rise in respiratory infections, frostbite, and other life-threatening conditions.

Easing the burden

Since 1992, Islamic Relief has distributed food packages to impoverished communities in Afghanistan each year to ease their burden and hardship during the blessed month of Ramadan.

So far this year we have distributed more than 11,000 food packs across 6 provinces – Balkh, Herat, Kabul, Kandahar, Kunar and Nangarhar. Each contains enough flour, oil, pulses and salt to last a family for the whole month, and the packs were distributed the week before Ramadan to ensure families could enter the holy month with joy and dignity.

Among these are the families of Bibi Mehrab, Fatima, Torpaykai, Bakht, who share their stories here.

‘This support will alleviate the constant worry of hunger that plagued my family’

Bihi Mehrab sits beside the food packs she received from Islamic Relief in Mazar, Balkh province

“This assistance is truly invaluable,” says Bibi Mehrab, a widow with 5 grandchildren, who lives in the Maaz Ibn Jabal camp for internally displaced persons (IDPs) in Balkh province and works spinning sheep’s wool into yarn.

She’s originally from Ser-e-Pul province, but in 2021, conflict forced her to relocate to Balkh in search of safety and aid.

“I received the food pack containing all I needed to get through Ramadan. The pack is enough to sustain my family for at least 2 months. It will alleviate the constant worry of hunger that plagued my family.”

“I’m thankful to Islamic Relief as my children will no longer have to endure the pain of going to bed with empty stomachs.”

‘You put a big smile on my children’s faces’

Fatima and her children at their home in Herat province

“Ramadan was a few days away, and my home had no food. It made me sad. I have small children, and I was worried about what to say to them if we ran out of food,” recalls Fatima, a 35-year-old mother of 3 children living in Herat, who sews to make ends meet.

“All of a sudden, Islamic Relief teams came to our neighbourhood. They assessed my situation and registered me for Ramadan food packs. I received the food pack, [which was] enough to take us through the month. You put a big smile on my children’s faces. May Allah bless you and the people who support you.”

‘I was worried how we’d be able to fast without food in our home’

Torpaykai preparing ani iftar meal for her family in Kabul

“I was worried about how we’d be able to fast without food in our home. We only had one thing in our home: faith and determination to fast,” says Torpaykai.

The 60-year-old shares a 1-bedroom home with her daughter, 2 grandchildren and her husband who is blind and experiencing mental illness. Without a breadwinner, the family is totally reliant on donations from neighbours, charitable institutions and well-wishers to support themselves.

“When I received the food packs, I was overwhelmed. May Allah (SWT) bless the hands of those who supported us at this difficult moment of our lives,” Torpaykai says.

‘My children will make dua for you all’

Bakht and her children at their home in Jalalabad

After her husband died in Afghanistan’s protracted war, the 34-year-old Bakht, was left as the sole provider for their young family. What would be a difficult situation for anyone, was made more challenging because of a lack of economic opportunities for women.

“I never go outside to look for menial jobs. My culture demands that I stay at home as a woman. We live on donations and help from community members,” Bakht explains.

“I received food packs from Islamic Relief containing flour, pulses, cooking oil, and salt. I’m sharing the food packs with my neighbours. They have supported me before, so it’s my turn to share the food today. I have no words to express my happiness. My children will make dua for you all.”

Islamic Relief is on the ground in Afghanistan delivering food packs to help ease families’ burdens during Ramadan, but this is just a drop in the ocean as the needs are immense. Our seasonal programmes provide a lifeline to vulnerable families like these mothers, helping keep people well-fed at this important time of the year.

Please help us reach even more vulnerable people during Ramadan. Donate now.

new director

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Nadeem Azhar

General Counsel

Nadeem joined Islamic Relief Worldwide in September 2022. He has worked in the charitable sector for over a decade.

He studied Modern History and Politics at Manchester University, and at the University of Law in London before qualifying as a solicitor in 2011.

Nadeem is an experienced corporate, commercial and governance lawyer, having worked with various faith-based and grant making charities as well those in health and education settings. He was a partner at a law firm in London before moving in-house where he focused on setting up and restructuring charities and social enterprises.

Most recently, Nadeem was Lead Counsel at Mind, a leading mental health charity, where he co-authored a new federation agreement, revamped legal processes, and played a major role in developing its strategic and fundraising partnerships.

Nadeem has been a charity trustee for the Seafarers Charity, as well as many grant-making bodies and theatre companies.

Adnan Hafiz

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Board of Directors
Javed Akhtar

Director of Finance

Javed Akhtar has more than a decade of experience at Islamic Relief, having worked in a similar role between 2003-2014. In that role he strove to implement wide-ranging financial and accounting processes which aided in the transparent nature in which Islamic Relief now operates.

Javed also has diverse experience across the private sector, having worked at American chemicals and pharmaceutical giant DuPont, shipping firm FedEX and technology consultancy company Accenture. In all his roles, he prioritises using the latest technologies to improve monitoring and reporting at every level. Javed’s commitment to embracing digital end-to-end technology, enhancing accountability to our stakeholders and promoting financial transparency is ensuring that we remain at the forefront of financial developments in the sector.

By training, Javed is a chartered accountant with a Master’s degree in NGO Management with Charity Accounting and Financial Management from Cass Business School.
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Affan Cheema  

Director of International Programmes

Affan Cheema is an experienced leader who has spent 25 years working in the international aid sector on poverty eradication in Asia, Africa and the Middle East. He has worked in fast onset emergencies, protracted crisis and development environments whilst working for Islamic Relief Worldwide and Care International. He is also a trustee of South West International Development Network (SWIDN).

Through his career Affan has held numerous roles including institutional fundraising, programme and grant management, and programme quality assurance.  Affan’s leadership has helped Islamic Relief Worldwide secure the highly coveted Core Humanitarian Standard (CHS), seen as the sector’s premier benchmark for operational excellence.

Affan completed his BA in Economics and Geography from University of London (School of Oriental and African Studies) and his MSc in Development Administration and Planning from the University of Bristol. He is PRINCE2 qualified, is a keen sportsman and recently co-edited a book entitled -Islam and International Development: Insights for working with Muslim Communities-.
Board of Directors
Dr Hossam Said

Managing Director, Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD)

For nearly three decades Dr Hossam has provided the strategic vision to manage, lead and develop a range of international humanitarian interventions around the world.

At the start of his career, Dr Hossam served on the Board of Directors of the Egyptian Medical Syndicate, before moving to Islamic Relief Worldwide to manage the core global business activities as International Programmes Director.

During this time the organisation increased its global reach, gaining both domestic and international repute and credibility. Dr Hossam has also served on the Islamic Relief Worldwide Board of Management and Executive Committee for the past 15 years; sharing responsibility for strategic organisational development and the change management process, whilst forging strong relationships with many other charities.

Dr Hossam gained an MBA from Aston Business School in 2004 and graduated as a Medical Doctor from Cairo University in 1981.
Board of Directors
Martin Cottingham  

Director of External Relations and Advocacy

Martin Cottingham joined Islamic Relief in 2012 as IRUK Media Relations Manager, and was appointed Head of Communications in 2015 before taking up his current position as Director of External Relations and Advocacy for Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Martin has helped Islamic Relief to increase its mainstream media profile and expand its campaigning work, producing hard-hitting advocacy reports on floods in Pakistan (2011) famine in Somalia (2012) disaster risk reduction (2013) and aid to Afghanistan (2014). He has over 20 years’ experience working in media, communications and marketing roles for international development and environmental charities.

Martin graduated from the University of London with a degree in English and Drama (1982-85) then trained as a journalist with a postgraduate diploma at City University (1986-87). He has previously worked for Christian Aid as Editor of Christian Aid News and Media Relations Manager (1988-97) for Oxfam as Regional Campaigns Manager (1997-2000) and at the Soil Association as Marketing Director (2001-2006), as well as working for a wide range of organisations as a freelance writer, researcher and communications consultant.

Tufail Hussain

Director of Islamic Relief UK

Tufail Hussain has 17 years’ experience in the humanitarian and development sector, leading on marketing and fundraising campaigns for several organisations before joining Islamic Relief UK in 2016 as Deputy Director. Tufail was appointed Director of Islamic Relief UK in 2019 and in 2021 provided valuable leadership as interim CEO of Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Tufail is driven by a passion for empowering disadvantaged youth and mentors a number of young people. He also works to strengthen engagement between British Muslims and wider society. Under his leadership, Islamic Relief UK has significantly increased its income and developed successful partnerships with communities across the country. He has travelled around the world to raise awareness of major emergencies such as the Syria, Yemen and Afghanistan crises and the floods in Pakistan and Sudan.

A father to 5 daughters and a son, Tufail is also a sports enthusiast and passionate Liverpool FC supporter. Tufail has run the London Marathon twice, raising over £35,000 for humanitarian causes.

Before joining Islamic Relief he was CEO of Orphans in Need, where he oversaw a new strategy that increased income from £2 million to £9 million in 3 years and opened up new UK and international offices. Tufail is also a trustee of the Muslim Charities Forum and a Director of TIC International (Islamic Relief Worldwide’s clothes recycling and trading arm).
Waseem Ahmad

Chief Executive Officer

Waseem Ahmad joined the Islamic Relief family over 24 years ago, serving as Programme Officer in the Balochistan province of south-western Pakistan before becoming Head of Programmes in Pakistan. Waseem then moved to Oxfam and Tearfund before returning to Islamic Relief to establish our mission in Malawi. Later serving as Head of Programme Funding and Partnerships, Waseem led the response to major crises across the globe, including the East Africa drought, Pakistan earthquake and the Indian Ocean Tsunami.

Waseem then served for nearly 6 years as our Director of International Programmes, during which time the charity secured and retained the coveted Core Humanitarian Standard certification in recognition of the quality of our programming. He was appointed CEO of Islamic Relief in May 2021.

With a special interest in community mobilisation and infrastructure, Waseem received an MSc in Project Planning and Management from the University of Bradford, as well as an MSc in Economics from Arid Agriculture University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan.

Waseem has also worked for Lepra Health in Action and is a member of the International Civil Society Centre’s Board of Trustees. The father-of-3 enjoys walking and playing football, and is a keen birdwatcher.