How emotional intelligence helps humanitarians working in high-stress environments

In the demanding world of humanitarian work, professionals often face high-pressure situations, complex challenges, and emotional turmoil. In these environments, technical skills alone are often not enough, and the ability to understand and manage emotions – both one’s own and those of others – becomes crucial.

Sheeren Salih, Office and Service Manager for the Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD), explains why Emotional intelligence (also known as emotional quotient, or EQ) plays such a vital role in these settings.

Understanding and improving EQ can significantly enhance team dynamics, foster resilience, and improve overall effectiveness in humanitarian missions.

What is Emotional intelligence?

Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to recognise, understand, and manage our own emotions while also being aware of and influencing the emotions of others. It involves four key components:

  1. Self-awareness: Recognising one’s own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and triggers.
  2. Self-management: The ability to control impulsive feelings and behaviours, maintain emotional balance, and adapt to changing circumstances.
  3. Social awareness: Understanding the emotions of others and being able to empathise with their feelings and perspectives.
  4. Relationship management: The ability to build and maintain healthy relationships, communicate clearly, inspire and influence others, and resolve conflicts effectively.

The role of EQ in humanitarian work

EQ plays a critical role in humanitarian work due to the unique and intense demands of the field and has several benefits for humanitarian workers:

1. Enhances resilience and coping skills

Humanitarian workers often operate in environments marked by high stress, trauma, and emotional strain. EQ equips them with the skills to recognise, process, and manage their emotions effectively, which is essential for resilience. By understanding their own emotional responses and developing healthy coping mechanisms, workers are better prepared to handle the pressures of the job and avoid breakdown.

2. Improves team cohesion and communication

Effective humanitarian work depends on strong teamwork, as field teams often include members from diverse cultural and professional backgrounds. High EQ helps workers communicate openly, respect diverse perspectives, and manage conflicts constructively. Teams with high emotional intelligence create an environment of mutual support and trust, which is crucial when making quick, high-stakes decisions in the field.

3. Promotes compassionate and effective community engagement

EQ fosters empathy, enabling humanitarian workers to connect with affected communities on a deeper level. This understanding allows them to provide more compassionate, culturally sensitive assistance and to build rapport with local stakeholders. When workers relate to and respect the experiences of those they serve, they can deliver support in ways that truly resonate with the community’s needs and values.

4. Facilitates better decision-making under pressure

Humanitarian settings often require rapid decision-making in uncertain or life-threatening circumstances. High EQ helps workers stay calm and balanced, even under intense stress, enabling them to make thoughtful decisions that take into account both rational analysis and emotional insight. This balanced approach leads to better, more holistic outcomes that consider both immediate needs and long-term impacts.

5. Supports mental health and wellbeing

Addressing emotional health is crucial for the wellbeing of humanitarian workers, who frequently face traumatic situations. Workers with high EQ are more adept at recognising signs of stress or emotional strain in themselves and others, allowing them to seek or offer support when needed. This self-awareness and ability to process emotions contribute to better mental health, improving overall job satisfaction and reducing turnover.

6. Strengthens leadership and influence

Leaders with high EQ can inspire and influence their teams more effectively, providing the support and guidance needed in challenging situations. In humanitarian work, where the stakes are high, leaders with strong emotional intelligence foster loyalty, resilience, and motivation among team members, creating a positive organisational culture that ultimately benefits both workers and the communities they serve.

Improving emotional intelligence in humanitarian teams

To leverage the benefits of emotional intelligence, organisations can implement several strategies:

  1. Training and workshops: Providing training programmes focused on EQ can help team members develop self-awareness, improve communication skills, and enhance their ability to empathise with others.
  2. Creating a supportive culture: Fostering an organisational culture that values emotional wellbeing encourages open discussions about mental health and emotional challenges. This culture can lead to improved morale and greater team cohesion.
  3. Encouraging reflection: Regularly encouraging self-reflection and peer feedback can help individuals become more aware of their emotional responses and how these affect their interactions with others.
  4. Developing EQ at leadership levels: Leaders play a critical role in shaping the emotional climate of a team. By demonstrating high EQ, leaders can set a positive example and inspire their teams to cultivate similar skills.
  5. Implementing peer support programmes: Creating structures for peer support allows team members to share their experiences and emotions in a safe environment, promoting collective resilience and understanding.

In the complex and high-stress world of humanitarian work, EQ is not just a beneficial skill; it is essential for building resilience and fostering effective teamwork. By prioritising EQ development, organisations can enhance their operational effectiveness, improve worker well-being, and ultimately deliver better outcomes for the communities they serve.

As the humanitarian landscape continues to evolve, investing in EQ will be key to ensuring that workers remain not only effective but also resilient and compassionate in the face of difficulty.

Looking to enhance Emotional Intelligence (EQ) within your team? HAD team is here to support with expert-led EQ training sessions, tailored to meet your organisation’s unique needs. Let us help you build a resilient, emotionally intelligent workforce ready to tackle any challenge!

Find out more about HAD by visiting https://had-int.org/.

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Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Nadeem Azhar

General Counsel

Nadeem joined Islamic Relief Worldwide in September 2022. He has worked in the charitable sector for over a decade.

He studied Modern History and Politics at Manchester University, and at the University of Law in London before qualifying as a solicitor in 2011.

Nadeem is an experienced corporate, commercial and governance lawyer, having worked with various faith-based and grant making charities as well those in health and education settings. He was a partner at a law firm in London before moving in-house where he focused on setting up and restructuring charities and social enterprises.

Most recently, Nadeem was Lead Counsel at Mind, a leading mental health charity, where he co-authored a new federation agreement, revamped legal processes, and played a major role in developing its strategic and fundraising partnerships.

Nadeem has been a charity trustee for the Seafarers Charity, as well as many grant-making bodies and theatre companies.

Adnan Hafiz

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

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Javed Akhtar

Director of Finance

Javed Akhtar has more than a decade of experience at Islamic Relief, having worked in a similar role between 2003-2014. In that role he strove to implement wide-ranging financial and accounting processes which aided in the transparent nature in which Islamic Relief now operates.

Javed also has diverse experience across the private sector, having worked at American chemicals and pharmaceutical giant DuPont, shipping firm FedEX and technology consultancy company Accenture. In all his roles, he prioritises using the latest technologies to improve monitoring and reporting at every level. Javed’s commitment to embracing digital end-to-end technology, enhancing accountability to our stakeholders and promoting financial transparency is ensuring that we remain at the forefront of financial developments in the sector.

By training, Javed is a chartered accountant with a Master’s degree in NGO Management with Charity Accounting and Financial Management from Cass Business School.
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Affan Cheema  

Director of International Programmes

Affan Cheema is an experienced leader who has spent 25 years working in the international aid sector on poverty eradication in Asia, Africa and the Middle East. He has worked in fast onset emergencies, protracted crisis and development environments whilst working for Islamic Relief Worldwide and Care International. He is also a trustee of South West International Development Network (SWIDN).

Through his career Affan has held numerous roles including institutional fundraising, programme and grant management, and programme quality assurance.  Affan’s leadership has helped Islamic Relief Worldwide secure the highly coveted Core Humanitarian Standard (CHS), seen as the sector’s premier benchmark for operational excellence.

Affan completed his BA in Economics and Geography from University of London (School of Oriental and African Studies) and his MSc in Development Administration and Planning from the University of Bristol. He is PRINCE2 qualified, is a keen sportsman and recently co-edited a book entitled -Islam and International Development: Insights for working with Muslim Communities-.
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Dr Hossam Said

Managing Director, Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD)

For nearly three decades Dr Hossam has provided the strategic vision to manage, lead and develop a range of international humanitarian interventions around the world.

At the start of his career, Dr Hossam served on the Board of Directors of the Egyptian Medical Syndicate, before moving to Islamic Relief Worldwide to manage the core global business activities as International Programmes Director.

During this time the organisation increased its global reach, gaining both domestic and international repute and credibility. Dr Hossam has also served on the Islamic Relief Worldwide Board of Management and Executive Committee for the past 15 years; sharing responsibility for strategic organisational development and the change management process, whilst forging strong relationships with many other charities.

Dr Hossam gained an MBA from Aston Business School in 2004 and graduated as a Medical Doctor from Cairo University in 1981.
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Martin Cottingham  

Director of External Relations and Advocacy

Martin Cottingham joined Islamic Relief in 2012 as IRUK Media Relations Manager, and was appointed Head of Communications in 2015 before taking up his current position as Director of External Relations and Advocacy for Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Martin has helped Islamic Relief to increase its mainstream media profile and expand its campaigning work, producing hard-hitting advocacy reports on floods in Pakistan (2011) famine in Somalia (2012) disaster risk reduction (2013) and aid to Afghanistan (2014). He has over 20 years’ experience working in media, communications and marketing roles for international development and environmental charities.

Martin graduated from the University of London with a degree in English and Drama (1982-85) then trained as a journalist with a postgraduate diploma at City University (1986-87). He has previously worked for Christian Aid as Editor of Christian Aid News and Media Relations Manager (1988-97) for Oxfam as Regional Campaigns Manager (1997-2000) and at the Soil Association as Marketing Director (2001-2006), as well as working for a wide range of organisations as a freelance writer, researcher and communications consultant.

Tufail Hussain

Director of Islamic Relief UK

Tufail Hussain has 17 years’ experience in the humanitarian and development sector, leading on marketing and fundraising campaigns for several organisations before joining Islamic Relief UK in 2016 as Deputy Director. Tufail was appointed Director of Islamic Relief UK in 2019 and in 2021 provided valuable leadership as interim CEO of Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Tufail is driven by a passion for empowering disadvantaged youth and mentors a number of young people. He also works to strengthen engagement between British Muslims and wider society. Under his leadership, Islamic Relief UK has significantly increased its income and developed successful partnerships with communities across the country. He has travelled around the world to raise awareness of major emergencies such as the Syria, Yemen and Afghanistan crises and the floods in Pakistan and Sudan.

A father to 5 daughters and a son, Tufail is also a sports enthusiast and passionate Liverpool FC supporter. Tufail has run the London Marathon twice, raising over £35,000 for humanitarian causes.

Before joining Islamic Relief he was CEO of Orphans in Need, where he oversaw a new strategy that increased income from £2 million to £9 million in 3 years and opened up new UK and international offices. Tufail is also a trustee of the Muslim Charities Forum and a Director of TIC International (Islamic Relief Worldwide’s clothes recycling and trading arm).
Waseem Ahmad

Chief Executive Officer

Waseem Ahmad joined the Islamic Relief family over 24 years ago, serving as Programme Officer in the Balochistan province of south-western Pakistan before becoming Head of Programmes in Pakistan. Waseem then moved to Oxfam and Tearfund before returning to Islamic Relief to establish our mission in Malawi. Later serving as Head of Programme Funding and Partnerships, Waseem led the response to major crises across the globe, including the East Africa drought, Pakistan earthquake and the Indian Ocean Tsunami.

Waseem then served for nearly 6 years as our Director of International Programmes, during which time the charity secured and retained the coveted Core Humanitarian Standard certification in recognition of the quality of our programming. He was appointed CEO of Islamic Relief in May 2021.

With a special interest in community mobilisation and infrastructure, Waseem received an MSc in Project Planning and Management from the University of Bradford, as well as an MSc in Economics from Arid Agriculture University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan.

Waseem has also worked for Lepra Health in Action and is a member of the International Civil Society Centre’s Board of Trustees. The father-of-3 enjoys walking and playing football, and is a keen birdwatcher.