Attacked, starved and displaced: 6 months of suffering in Gaza

Since an unprecedented escalation began on October 7, life in Gaza has become almost unliveable. Families have been driven from their homes with little more than the clothes on their backs.

Displaced and starving as famine looms, parents are faced with the impossible task of keeping their children safe and fed amid this crisis.

For some of these children, school has become a distant memory, as so many school buildings have been destroyed or converted into desperately needed shelters.

Amid this upheaval, children like Mariam feel their youth slipping away. “I feel like I’ve aged years beyond my actual age,” the 10-year-old says.

“My family and I are living through the worst days of fear, terror, insecurity, cold, hunger and thirst. We never imagined we would experience such days. We have been deprived of our entire childhood and our right to live a safe life.”

Sadly, this is not the first deadly escalation Mariam has experienced, but this intensity of violence has never been seen before.

More than 33,000 people are reported to have been killed in Gaza since October, including many children. Over 200 aid workers have died, as well as medics and news reporters. Parents have been killed trying to reach aid trucks to feed their families, while the death toll from Gaza’s famine continues to mount, with scores of children dying from malnutrition and dehydration.

Some 75,800 people have been injured, while more than 7,000 more are missing, according to local authorities.

Throughout more than 180 days of bombing, hospitals, homes and vital infrastructure have been reduced to rubble. Entire neighbourhoods are uninhabited and unrecognisable. The scale of the destruction is difficult to comprehend and will only increase as attacks continue without a ceasefire in place.

Sleeping under Allah’s protection

As more than 1 million people were ordered to flee their homes in the first weeks of the crisis, Hanaa, Mariam’s mother, says she resisted leaving her house for just over a month, sheltering there with her 4 children.

“We were sleeping under Allah’s protection when suddenly a missile fell into our living room. Thankfully, it did not explode. We rushed out in the middle of the night and spent the entire night on the street amid cold, fear, shelling, and missiles above our heads. We didn’t know where to go.”

The family left home with nothing, making their way to a relative’s home in Jabalia camp, but they would not stay for long.

“Death continued to pursue us,” Hanaa says. “Once night fell, rockets began to fall throughout the night. The house walls collapsed due to the intense shelling. We waited until dawn then decided to go to a school in the hopes of finding safety. Just minutes before we reached the school, it was bombed, and we narrowly escaped death for the third time.”

Hanaa and her children fled south, staying with family in Rafah for only 1 night. “When daylight broke, I wished it hadn’t, so we could rest a bit more. We were exhausted. We had walked from Gaza’s north to its south. I did not know where to go with my children in the cold. We had no blankets or warm clothes to shield us, and we didn’t have any money to buy anything from the markets.”

Without school, Mariam’s days are filled with running family errands in the camp where they now live

Fortunately, one of Hanaa’s sons, Mohammed, remembered another relative living in the south who welcomed the family despite being displaced himself. The family is now sheltering in a tent inside a school with 15 other people. The cramped conditions are challenging, and Hanaa and her children initially slept on nylon bags before finding mattresses. Getting enough food to eat is a constant struggle.

“When we arrived in the south, flour, bread and vegetables were not available and when they were, they were very expensive and beyond our means. I would send my children to free distribution centres, where they would wait for hours in long queues, often coming back empty-handed. If they did manage to get something, it was very little and not enough to feed us all,” Hanaa says, recalling surviving on lentil soup for 2 months and learning how to cook over an open fire.

In the camp, Hanaa’s children contracted hepatitis, but the treatments suggested by a doctor – vitamins, supplements, sweets and medication – were simply unaffordable.

“We [even] struggle to find water for bathing and suffer from a shortage of clean drinking water… we also lack hygiene products like disinfectant, shampoo, soup and many other necessities that prevent the spread of disease,” Hanaa says. More than 300,000 people living in camps like Hanaa and her family have reported acute respiratory infections, while 200,000 cases of acute watery diarrhoea have also been reported. Diseases such as jaundice, hepatitis A, scabies and skin rashes have also risen sharply.

“I wish I had enough money to set up a tent for me and my children to live in a clean, healthy environment. Rainwater falls on us during every downpour, soaking the bedding, which takes a week to dry. My children still suffer from illness. I’m very afraid. I fear losing any of them in these dire conditions.”

A lifeline for families in need

Hanaa’s family is one of more than 10,000 in Gaza now supported by Islamic Relief’s Orphan Sponsorship Programme, which we have expanded in Gaza since October to help meet families’ desperate needs. The monthly stipend, which once covered education and healthcare costs, is now a vital lifeline for the family. When the stipend arrived, Hanaa says she cried tears of joy.

“I hurried to withdraw the money and went straight to the market. I bought 3 blankets, flour, some vegetables, and canned food to feed my children. Since I couldn’t find clothes for my daughter Mariam, who was very sick and needed warmth, I bought her a coat.”

Hanaa’s family is one of more than 10,000 in Gaza now supported by Islamic Relief’s Orphan Sponsorship Programme, which we have expanded in Gaza since October to help meet families’ desperate needs

“I almost flew with joy when my mother came back carrying flour, food and canned food for us,” Mariam remembers. “I had been craving them for months and thought we might never eat them again. I was so happy with the new coat; I quickly put it on and prayed fervently to Allah to reward the sponsor who did not forget us in these difficult circumstances.”

Islamic Relief’s Orphan Sponsorship Programme is vital for families in Gaza, never more so than now. The regular stipend is helping families like Mariam and Hanaa’s to keep warm and fed amid displacement and disaster.

Providing food, water and respite

The dangerous situation on the ground since October 7 has forced Islamic Relief to suspend our long-term programming, with the exception of the Orphan Sponsorship Programme. Instead, our staff and partners on the ground have scaled up our emergency response.

We have prepared and served well over 10 million hot meals in shelters, helping to keep displaced people fed amid the crisis. In partnership with the World Food Programme (WFP), we have been supplying some 35,000 mothers and their young children with nutritional supplements on a biweekly basis to combat malnutrition. This programme allows food packs containing essential supplies to reach 54,000 families in need.

In the earliest days of the crisis, we distributed more than 2.3 million medical supplies to healthcare facilities, and we continue to support the struggling healthcare sector by paying the salaries of doctors at a small health clinic dealing with minor treatments and consultations. In shelters, we distribute water and organise games and other activities to offer some respite and counselling to displaced children.

Islamic Relief has so far prepared and served well over 10 million hot meals in shelters, helping ease the hunger of displaced people

All of this work is made possible by the generosity of our donors and makes a real impact on people struggling to survive. However, it covers only a tiny portion of the huge humanitarian need in Gaza. Much more support is needed, and it cannot be provided by humanitarian organisations alone.

There is no excuse for the entirely man-made disaster unfolding in Gaza before the eyes of the world. Israel continues to prevent sufficient humanitarian aid from entering Gaza. Many international governments and world leaders are complicit, or risk being complicit in the suffering by repeatedly failing – or refusing – to act to stop it.

Islamic Relief continues to call for an immediate and permanent ceasefire and for international law to be upheld. We are calling for an end to the Israeli siege so that humanitarian aid, commercial goods, and critical supplies such as fuel can enter Gaza in sufficient quantity to meet the needs of its population.

We continue to call on our donors and supporters to give what they can to support people in Gaza whose homes, livelihoods and futures have been ripped from them. While a hot meal or drink of clean water cannot erase their suffering, they can help families and individuals to survive this crisis.

Please help Islamic Relief to continue providing this essential support. Donate now to our Gaza Emergency Fund. Please also contact your political representatives and urge them to demand an immediate ceasefire and unrestricted humanitarian access into Gaza.

new director

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

Nadeem Azhar

General Counsel

Nadeem joined Islamic Relief Worldwide in September 2022. He has worked in the charitable sector for over a decade.

He studied Modern History and Politics at Manchester University, and at the University of Law in London before qualifying as a solicitor in 2011.

Nadeem is an experienced corporate, commercial and governance lawyer, having worked with various faith-based and grant making charities as well those in health and education settings. He was a partner at a law firm in London before moving in-house where he focused on setting up and restructuring charities and social enterprises.

Most recently, Nadeem was Lead Counsel at Mind, a leading mental health charity, where he co-authored a new federation agreement, revamped legal processes, and played a major role in developing its strategic and fundraising partnerships.

Nadeem has been a charity trustee for the Seafarers Charity, as well as many grant-making bodies and theatre companies.

Adnan Hafiz

Director of Network and Resource Development

Adnan joined Islamic Relief in 2004 as a regional fundraiser in the UK. He worked in multiple roles over 10 years at Islamic Relief UK, including setting up the first digital team and leading the growth of digital fundraising and engagement. Adnan also led numerous fundraising and marketing campaigns, which played a significant part in the growth of Islamic Relief UK.

Having moved to Islamic Relief Worldwide in 2014, Adnan has held different roles that have helped grow Islamic Relief’s global digital footprint into new geographic territories, supporting Islamic Relief members with their digital and marketing growth as well as developing new products and initiatives for the Islamic Relief family.

Adnan graduated in Industrial Design and Technology from Loughborough University. He has since completed an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration from Durham University and a Diploma in Digital Marketing from the Institute of Data and Marketing.

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Javed Akhtar

Director of Finance

Javed Akhtar has more than a decade of experience at Islamic Relief, having worked in a similar role between 2003-2014. In that role he strove to implement wide-ranging financial and accounting processes which aided in the transparent nature in which Islamic Relief now operates.

Javed also has diverse experience across the private sector, having worked at American chemicals and pharmaceutical giant DuPont, shipping firm FedEX and technology consultancy company Accenture. In all his roles, he prioritises using the latest technologies to improve monitoring and reporting at every level. Javed’s commitment to embracing digital end-to-end technology, enhancing accountability to our stakeholders and promoting financial transparency is ensuring that we remain at the forefront of financial developments in the sector.

By training, Javed is a chartered accountant with a Master’s degree in NGO Management with Charity Accounting and Financial Management from Cass Business School.
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Affan Cheema  

Director of International Programmes

Affan Cheema is an experienced leader who has spent 25 years working in the international aid sector on poverty eradication in Asia, Africa and the Middle East. He has worked in fast onset emergencies, protracted crisis and development environments whilst working for Islamic Relief Worldwide and Care International. He is also a trustee of South West International Development Network (SWIDN).

Through his career Affan has held numerous roles including institutional fundraising, programme and grant management, and programme quality assurance.  Affan’s leadership has helped Islamic Relief Worldwide secure the highly coveted Core Humanitarian Standard (CHS), seen as the sector’s premier benchmark for operational excellence.

Affan completed his BA in Economics and Geography from University of London (School of Oriental and African Studies) and his MSc in Development Administration and Planning from the University of Bristol. He is PRINCE2 qualified, is a keen sportsman and recently co-edited a book entitled -Islam and International Development: Insights for working with Muslim Communities-.
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Dr Hossam Said

Managing Director, Humanitarian Academy for Development (HAD)

For nearly three decades Dr Hossam has provided the strategic vision to manage, lead and develop a range of international humanitarian interventions around the world.

At the start of his career, Dr Hossam served on the Board of Directors of the Egyptian Medical Syndicate, before moving to Islamic Relief Worldwide to manage the core global business activities as International Programmes Director.

During this time the organisation increased its global reach, gaining both domestic and international repute and credibility. Dr Hossam has also served on the Islamic Relief Worldwide Board of Management and Executive Committee for the past 15 years; sharing responsibility for strategic organisational development and the change management process, whilst forging strong relationships with many other charities.

Dr Hossam gained an MBA from Aston Business School in 2004 and graduated as a Medical Doctor from Cairo University in 1981.
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Martin Cottingham  

Director of External Relations and Advocacy

Martin Cottingham joined Islamic Relief in 2012 as IRUK Media Relations Manager, and was appointed Head of Communications in 2015 before taking up his current position as Director of External Relations and Advocacy for Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Martin has helped Islamic Relief to increase its mainstream media profile and expand its campaigning work, producing hard-hitting advocacy reports on floods in Pakistan (2011) famine in Somalia (2012) disaster risk reduction (2013) and aid to Afghanistan (2014). He has over 20 years’ experience working in media, communications and marketing roles for international development and environmental charities.

Martin graduated from the University of London with a degree in English and Drama (1982-85) then trained as a journalist with a postgraduate diploma at City University (1986-87). He has previously worked for Christian Aid as Editor of Christian Aid News and Media Relations Manager (1988-97) for Oxfam as Regional Campaigns Manager (1997-2000) and at the Soil Association as Marketing Director (2001-2006), as well as working for a wide range of organisations as a freelance writer, researcher and communications consultant.

Tufail Hussain

Director of Islamic Relief UK

Tufail Hussain has 17 years’ experience in the humanitarian and development sector, leading on marketing and fundraising campaigns for several organisations before joining Islamic Relief UK in 2016 as Deputy Director. Tufail was appointed Director of Islamic Relief UK in 2019 and in 2021 provided valuable leadership as interim CEO of Islamic Relief Worldwide.

Tufail is driven by a passion for empowering disadvantaged youth and mentors a number of young people. He also works to strengthen engagement between British Muslims and wider society. Under his leadership, Islamic Relief UK has significantly increased its income and developed successful partnerships with communities across the country. He has travelled around the world to raise awareness of major emergencies such as the Syria, Yemen and Afghanistan crises and the floods in Pakistan and Sudan.

A father to 5 daughters and a son, Tufail is also a sports enthusiast and passionate Liverpool FC supporter. Tufail has run the London Marathon twice, raising over £35,000 for humanitarian causes.

Before joining Islamic Relief he was CEO of Orphans in Need, where he oversaw a new strategy that increased income from £2 million to £9 million in 3 years and opened up new UK and international offices. Tufail is also a trustee of the Muslim Charities Forum and a Director of TIC International (Islamic Relief Worldwide’s clothes recycling and trading arm).
Waseem Ahmad

Chief Executive Officer

Waseem Ahmad joined the Islamic Relief family over 24 years ago, serving as Programme Officer in the Balochistan province of south-western Pakistan before becoming Head of Programmes in Pakistan. Waseem then moved to Oxfam and Tearfund before returning to Islamic Relief to establish our mission in Malawi. Later serving as Head of Programme Funding and Partnerships, Waseem led the response to major crises across the globe, including the East Africa drought, Pakistan earthquake and the Indian Ocean Tsunami.

Waseem then served for nearly 6 years as our Director of International Programmes, during which time the charity secured and retained the coveted Core Humanitarian Standard certification in recognition of the quality of our programming. He was appointed CEO of Islamic Relief in May 2021.

With a special interest in community mobilisation and infrastructure, Waseem received an MSc in Project Planning and Management from the University of Bradford, as well as an MSc in Economics from Arid Agriculture University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan.

Waseem has also worked for Lepra Health in Action and is a member of the International Civil Society Centre’s Board of Trustees. The father-of-3 enjoys walking and playing football, and is a keen birdwatcher.